Victim Blaming – Why Do We Do It?

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Victim blaming is the belief that the victim of a crime, wrongful act or any harm that befell them was wholly or partially at fault. It’s a pervasive problem, and many people don’t even realize they’re blaming victims.

Survivors are encouraged to believe they are responsible for the crime against them, which can discourage them from speaking up and seeking justice. It can also make them feel unable to trust others and may heighten depressive, anxious and suicidal symptoms. Victim blaming is harmful for society, too. It sends a message to perpetrators that they can get away with what they do because nobody will hold them accountable for their actions.

It’s important to understand why we do this so that we can challenge it when we hear it. One reason is that people like to attribute other people’s behavior to internal, personal characteristics rather than external factors. This is called the fundamental attribution error. When we see a classmate flunking a test, for instance, it’s easy to assume that they failed because of bad study habits or lazy effort, rather than the fact that they have Crohn’s Disease and are sensitive to gluten.

Another reason is that we have a desire to believe that the world is a just place and that those who triumph deserve their successes, while those who suffer must somehow be responsible for their misfortune. This is known as the just-world phenomenon, and it’s a big part of why people tend to blame victims for their abuse.

Finally, it’s possible to blame victims because of a lack of empathy and/or a fear reaction triggered by the drive for self-preservation. When someone doesn’t empathize with victims or when they experience a threat to their safety, they will naturally want to defend themselves by blaming the victim, especially if they have a vested interest in maintaining their relationship with the victim.

Whenever you hear or read about high profile cases of violence against women, keep in mind that victim-blaming is still very much alive. The last thing survivors need is for their loved ones to belittle their experiences and question how they could have prevented what happened.

When someone close to you discloses that they’ve been a victim of sexual assault or other crimes, listen to them. Try not to ask questions that come off as victim blaming and don’t push them to take any specific action (like reporting). It’s also okay for them to be angry and upset, but don’t use that anger to lash out at the survivor or their attacker. It is not their fault and it only serves to add to their feelings of shame. Instead, encourage them to seek a therapist or other support services and remind them that they are not at fault for what happened. This article was co-authored by Tasha Rube, LMSW.

The Importance of Women in Society


Women, as the backbone of any family, are an essential part of society. They are the primary caregivers for children and elders, and they provide the vital link between a community and the national economy. They also play a pivotal role in transforming rural communities into self-sufficient societies.

While there is a lot of negative publicity surrounding the role of women, it is important to remember that they are an invaluable part of our society and that they have unique strengths that men do not possess. Women are multitaskers and can handle a variety of tasks at once. They have higher levels of the hormone oxytocin, which helps them bond with others and increase their ability to empathize. These skills are invaluable in business, where forming relationships is key to success.

When it comes to educating children, women are on the front lines. They are often the ones who urge their children to attend school and stay in it. This is an essential part of the development process, and women are responsible for shaping a child’s character, teaching them social skills and helping them grow into caring adults.

In the workforce, women are the driving force behind many organizations. They have proven to be excellent leaders, and they are often able to take complex ideas and translate them into action. Women are also more likely to collaborate with others, which is a crucial skill in any industry. Women are better at managing multiple projects simultaneously, and they have a tendency to work well under pressure.

Despite the fact that women are still fighting for equal rights, they have gained ground and are now more prevalent in professional fields than ever before. In fact, in some countries, women now outnumber men in graduate programs and professional schools. However, a woman’s role in society has not yet reached its full potential.

For centuries, women have been subjected to misogyny and oppression. Many women have lost their sense of identity, and it is difficult for them to understand their true role in human society.

It is important to remember that women make up half of the world’s population and are a huge resource for any nation. While many stereotypes of women exist, it is important to recognize that women are capable and deserve to live life to its fullest. They should be free from violence in the home and workplace, sex discrimination, dowry prohibition superstitions, and other social atrocities. Women should act as leaders in their communities to promote gender equality and raise awareness of the issues affecting them. In order to achieve this, they must work together as a team, sharing their knowledge and resources. They should create and implement programs to help other women reach their full potential. This will allow them to become the best version of themselves, and it will benefit everyone in the end. By doing so, women can make the world a more peaceful and productive place.

The Global Challenge of Gender Inequality

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Gender inequality is one of the most persistent and pernicious global challenges we face. It robs women and girls of their right to equal opportunities, rights and duties in every area of life and hinders sustainable development and social progress.

Women and girls are disproportionately affected by all forms of inequality. While important advances have been made in some areas – like declining child marriage and female genital mutilation, or the fact that more women than men now hold public office – a world in which every woman and girl enjoys full gender equality remains a long-term goal.

In the workplace, gender inequality takes on a range of shapes and sizes. It could be pay gaps, a lack of flexible working arrangements or even incidents of sexual harassment. However, leaders can also play a significant role in eliminating workplace discrimination and encouraging women to take on leadership roles, by putting policies in place and setting the tone from the top down.

Outside the workplace, gender inequality takes on a more nuanced form. For instance, there’s the sex bias embedded in educational institutions that prevents girls and women from taking up certain professions, such as medicine. A shocking example of this is the 2018 discovery that Tokyo Medical University lowered the scores of female medical students in order to ensure more men would become doctors, reflecting continuing societal assumptions and biologically essentialist notions of gender.

Another key factor in determining the quality of healthcare is whether or not you have access to it, and this is linked to your economic status. Women are more likely to be in poverty, and therefore less able to afford good healthcare. As a result, many women are unable to access contraception and receive lower-quality treatment than men, which can lead to serious health consequences including autoimmune disorders and chronic pain conditions.

Aside from the economic, there are a wide range of other issues that contribute to gender inequality, including sexual violence and exploitation, unequal division of unpaid care and domestic work, and discrimination in legal and social spheres. All of these are amplified by climate change and disasters, which disproportionately affect women and girls. When extreme weather hits a community, women’s and girls’ rights to education, housing, work and protection against violence are often violated.

Achieving gender equality will require political leadership, investments and comprehensive policy reforms. As the COVID-19 pandemic continues, we need to focus on the needs of women and girls by tackling the root causes of inequality: gender bias and stereotypes, preferences and comparative advantage between men and women, as well as a lack of culturally accepted practices that support equality. This is how we will get closer to the vision of a world where women and men enjoy equal opportunities, rights and duties in all aspects of life. Let’s make it happen together.

Preventing Sexual Violence

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Sexual violence can take many forms, including sexual assault and harassment, coerced sex or nonconsensual sexual acts, and child sexual abuse. No one deserves or asks for this type of violence to happen to them and it is not their fault. Everyone can play a role in preventing sexual violence. This includes promoting healthy relationships and behaviors, intervening when someone is behaving in ways that are not safe and changing the culture of the community to prevent sexual violence from happening at all.

Survivors of sexual assault and abuse may experience a wide range of emotions and reactions after the incident occurs. These may include feelings of shame, embarrassment, guilt, and fear. They might feel isolated and alone as friends, family, and coworkers avoid the topic or act as if what happened was not a big deal. This isolation and lack of support can make it harder for victims and survivors to get the help they need.

It is important to be a friend and supporter to a survivor of sexual violence. This means offering them a judgment free space to talk about the incident and being there when they are ready to share more information. It is also helpful to let them know you believe them and that what happened was not their fault. It is also important to be a ally and help them report what happened to police. It is also a good idea to offer them transportation or a place to stay. Reporting sexual assault is an important step for a victim/survivor and a way to reclaim their power and sense of safety. It is also an opportunity to send a message to the perpetrator that this behavior is NOT okay.

Many people have a difficult time recognizing that sexual violence is a problem because it takes place in intimate relationships and can be hidden from others. This can be a complex issue because abusers often coerce their victims into sexual acts without their consent. This can be difficult to recognize, especially for the victim or survivor.

Sexual violence has a ripple effect on the community, impacting economics and societal well-being. It costs communities through medical services, police/crime response fees, and crisis and counseling services. The cost to society is even higher when you consider the lost productivity, emotional health, and quality of life for those who are affected.

The most effective way to tackle sexual violence is prevention. This is accomplished by promoting healthy relationships, behaviors and values and addressing negative social norms that encourage sexual violence and harassment. It is at the individual level that the best prevention work can be done. This can be anything from ensuring you have a friend with you when going out to parties to helping others understand the difference between sex and harassment.

How to Stop Victim Blaming

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Virtually everyone who has ever survived a sexual assault or other crime knows how painful victim blaming can be. Survivors are often asked what they were wearing or doing that “provoked” the perpetrator, why they weren’t more careful, or why they didn’t fight back. These questions are harmful and stigmatize survivors, making them feel guilty about their experience and contributing to toxic self-blame. They also make it harder for victims to speak out about their experiences.

Despite the rise of the #MeToo movement, victim blaming continues to be a problem in our society. Many people don’t even realize that they are participating in victim blaming because it can be subtle and unconscious. For example, if someone hears about a crime and wonders how the victim could have prevented it by being more careful or taking other precautions, they are engaging in some form of victim blaming.

This can apply to more serious crimes, like rape or sexual assault, or it may be about less serious incidents, like getting pickpocketed. For instance, if a person gets their wallet stolen, they may be blamed for leaving it dangling from their pocket or for traveling through a dangerous neighborhood. Victim blaming can also vary by culture and individuals’ experiences. For example, studies have shown that women who break gender roles are more likely to be blamed than those who don’t.

While it’s not easy to change our tendency to blame victims, we can work to challenge and counter victim blaming when we see it in our lives and in the news. The first step is to be aware of it so we can recognize when it’s happening and help stop it in its tracks.

If someone is being victimized, it’s important to offer support by focusing on what they did right rather than what they did wrong. It’s also helpful to remember that victims can still suffer from traumatic events even when they didn’t do anything wrong and they should be treated with dignity and respect.

Survivors of trauma and abuse need support from loved ones, community members, and the media. They need to be able to trust that their voices will be heard. If they’re being listened to and supported, it’s more likely that they will seek help when they need it.

We need to encourage victims of sexual violence and other crimes to come forward by ensuring that they are believed, respected, and that their needs are met. We can do this by educating ourselves on victim blaming, speaking out against it when we hear it, and supporting those who have been victimized by challenging victim blaming perspectives. We can also help prevent it by removing victim-blaming messages from our social and political landscapes. This will make our world a safer place for all, especially vulnerable and minority groups who are at higher risk of victimization. Lastly, we can ensure that victim blaming doesn’t affect how our legal system treats victims by supporting reforms that will hold perpetrators accountable.

How Sexual Violence Affects Survivors

Sexual violence is any kind of sexual activity or physical contact that happens without the victim’s consent. This type of violence can take many forms, including child sexual abuse, sex crimes, rape and other types of sexual assault. Sexual violence is never a victim’s fault and is almost always a crime of coercion – using force or threats to cause someone else harm.

Survivors of sexual violence often suffer from a number of physical, emotional and social impacts. In addition to the immediate concerns like abrasions, a risk of sexually transmitted infections and pregnancy, they may also face long-term problems such as depression, anxiety and post-traumatic stress disorder. These issues can affect the survivor’s family, friends, work and school life.

One of the biggest problems survivors face is relearning how to trust. This can be difficult for anyone, but for a survivor who has experienced sexual violence, this is especially true. Survivors often feel that they can’t trust others, and this can impact their relationships and work. They may also struggle with feelings of anger, fear and guilt.

Another common problem is feeling powerless after a sexual assault. This can cause survivors to act out in harmful ways – such as self-harm, drug use and eating disorders. It can also lead to feelings of hopelessness and a lack of self-worth.

People who commit sexual violence often believe that they are not able to control their actions and that they have a right to use violence. These beliefs are rooted in a variety of factors, including how society perceives certain sexual behaviors, the way in which cultures see men’s and women’s roles, and individual beliefs about the sex of others. For example, men from more conservative cultures are more likely to view women’s nonsexual behaviors or platonic interests as sexual in nature and interpret these as a reason for violence against them.

Sexual assault can happen anywhere, anytime – on a bus, at school, in a restaurant, at the workplace and even during a party. Often, the perpetrator is someone known to the victim or their family. However, the perpetrator can also be a stranger. The perpetrator can be male or female, a man or woman of any age. Sexual violence can happen to anyone – regardless of race, religion, gender identity or sexual orientation.

Prevention of sexual violence is everyone’s responsibility. Support community efforts to prevent sexual assault by teaching consent and boundaries in schools, learning about legislation that supports victims and holds perpetrators accountable and letting your representatives know you support it. Donate to your local advocacy center and volunteer to help survivors. Challenge images of violence against women in advertising, pornography and professional wrestling.

Many sexual assaults are preventable. The best thing you can do to protect yourself is stay in charge of your own body – listen to your instincts and don’t be afraid to say no. Don’t put yourself in situations where you’re a target and don’t drink and/or take drugs. Stay in a group of people you trust, especially at parties. If you are being raped, try to stay calm and resist the assault if possible by saying “NO” and running away, or by acting aggressively.

Victim Blaming

Victim blaming is the act of making a victim of abuse, crime or misfortune responsible for their experience. It can be found in any context, but is especially common when discussing sexual assault, rape and other forms of gender-based violence. This can be a tactic perpetrators use to silence survivors and keep them from reporting the crime, but it is also a common reaction of people who do not understand the impact of these crimes or have been conditioned to see victims as less than.

It can be difficult to recognise when you are victim blaming, as some people do not realise they are doing it until someone tells them they are. However, it is important to remember that any time you blame a survivor of violence for their experience, you are putting them at risk and taking away their power.

Some common examples of victim blaming are telling a survivor they should have known better, implying that their attacker was not fully to blame because of alcohol or drugs, or claiming that the attack could have been prevented by wearing different clothes. These excuses do not address the real reasons for an assault, such as a lack of respect for women or a desire to hurt and control them.

Blaming a victim can be especially harmful when it comes to survivors of sexual assault and other types of gender-based violence, who are often already isolated and stigmatised for their experience. Many survivors report being able to access support and safety only after they had disclosed to people that they had been abused. However, these disclosures were often followed by victim blaming attitudes, which can lead to further isolation and feelings of responsibility for the attack.

The reason why people are so quick to apportion blame to victims of crime is that it allows them to maintain their belief that the world is a just place and that people deserve what they get. This is adaptive because it helps us to make sense of the chaos around us, but it can be dangerous if it leads to a lack of empathy for those who experience injustice.

The best way to tackle victim blaming is to educate yourself on gender-based violence and its impact, as well as learning more about the root causes of sexual violence. You can start by speaking out against harmful comments on social media, re-framing conversations and sharing information about the impact of sexual violence. Additionally, you can work with your local rape crisis centre, domestic violence nonprofit, women’s organisation or police community outreach officers to arrange talks and townhall meetings for your community to raise awareness about victim blaming and how it is directly linked to a lack of empathy and understanding for gender-based violence. This can help to change how the public perceives the issue of VAW and empower people to stand up against it. This will require a level of honesty and empathy that people may not be used to, but the results will be worth it.

Barriers to Women in the Workplace

Women have been struggling for equal rights for centuries, and it seems like they’ve come a long way since the time where all women had to do was have babies and take care of the house. Today, we see that women are outnumbering men in graduate programs, and they make up the majority of business leaders. However, there is still a large gap between the number of male and female leaders in the workplace, which could be due to biases against women based on gender, race, sexual orientation, or disability. In order to close this leadership gap, it’s important for organizations to understand the different barriers that women face, and find ways to support them in the workforce.

One of the biggest barriers that women face is the inability to define what a woman is. Many people, especially transgender activists and self-styled “gender experts,” don’t seem to know the answer to this question. They use this lack of understanding to argue that there are only certain things that can be considered a woman, and that gender is a social construct.

However, this argument is flawed for a few reasons. First, it’s important to recognize that words often have multiple meanings. This is called polysemy, and it’s not uncommon for a word to have several definitions that are closely related. For example, the word “hands” can mean hands as a body part or hands as something used for manual labor. In fact, the term hands is so common that it’s in the dictionary under both definitions.

The word “woman” has a similar history. It originally referred to a specific type of animal (ewe), and later became a generic term for an adult human female. In most cases, the term has a neutral or positive connotation, and it is commonly used in contrast to male. It is also used to describe animals, and it has a neutral or negative connotation in those contexts as well: 104 female sheep for every 100 male sheep; the chief hunter of a lion pride.

In addition to this, the definition of woman has changed over time, with new senses emerging such as “woman as wife” and “woman as embodiment of femininity.” There have also been many pejorative senses of the word, including strumpet, wench, and minx.

These issues should be discussed openly with empathy and science, not turned into a fight over who can or cannot be a woman. We all deserve to have a place in the world, and we can’t do that if we don’t agree on what a woman is. Thankfully, the answer is simple: a woman is an adult human female. So what are you waiting for, trannies? Go deliver some babies, nurture them, nuture yourself, have a vagina and uterus, bleed every month, go through puberty, menopause, raise some grandbabies – then you might be a true woman! And don’t forget to wash those hands.

Upholding Women’s Rights is Everyone’s Responsibility

Until every person enjoys the same rights no matter their sex, gender or race, the world will not be truly free. Upholding women’s rights is everyone’s responsibility.

Throughout history, some myths and religions presented women as less intelligent or a source of evil, so men often ruled them. Even after women were given some freedom, they still struggled with discrimination in many areas of life. Some women, however, were able to become leaders. For example, Queen Elizabeth ruled England for 45 years in the 1500s, and Catherine the Great was empress of Russia in the 1700s. Other women were able to make significant contributions in business, science and the arts. Yet, despite their tremendous accomplishments, most women have not been equal to men in terms of legal rights.

Seven generations have been witness to enormous changes for women – in family life, in religion, in the workplace, and in politics and government. These dramatic improvements have not happened by accident or miracle – they were the result of deliberate, determined action. Thousands of women have worked to affect these changes, and they should be remembered for their heroic work.

The story of women’s activism is a drama filled with courageous visionaries who refused to give up. It’s a story of ingenious strategies, capable organizers and administrators, and activists who used public speaking, petition drives, lobbying, and nonviolent resistance to achieve their goals. These women’s names and achievements should be as familiar to Americans as the names of Thomas Jefferson, Abraham Lincoln, and Martin Luther King, Jr.

In the United States, the movement to guarantee women’s rights was a grassroots effort that began in 1848. The first women’s rights convention was held in the small town of Seneca Falls, New York. The participants included Lucretia Mott, a Quaker preacher and social activist; Martha Wright, a teacher and journalist; Mary Ann McClintock, the leader of an Illinois state union for working women; and Elizabeth Cady Stanton, a lawyer and founder of the National Woman Suffrage Association.

Most people believe that women and girls should have the same rights as men. In fact, across 34 countries surveyed by Pew Research Center, a median of 94% say it is very important for women to have the same rights as men in their country. This includes majorities in Sweden, the Netherlands, France, Germany, and Australia, as well as nearly all surveyed Latin American nations.

Most people also think that the new Sustainable Development Goals will help further advance women’s rights, including reducing discrimination against women and girls. But to achieve these goals, governments and societies must commit to the women’s rights agenda – and make sure they follow through with their promises. The women’s rights movement cannot rest until all women enjoy the same opportunities and rights as men, regardless of their sex, race or religion. They need to make the case that equality is a fundamental human right and it’s everyone’s responsibility. Investing in the solutions of grass-roots women’s organizations will be essential to this effort.

Ending Gender Inequality

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Despite important progress, substantial gender inequality remains worldwide in areas such as education, labor force participation, wages and leadership positions. Even before the COVID-19 pandemic, girls faced gender discrimination in their access to schools and had to shoulder more household responsibilities — thus increasing their risk of early marriage and pregnancy — than boys (see figure below). The COVID-19 pandemic further exacerbated pre-existing gender disparities by keeping many women from going to work and taking time off to care for sick children. This was especially true in countries with high levels of conflict and poverty.

One reason why it can be hard to measure progress in reducing gaps between men and women is that different dimensions of inequality have different causes. For example, a gap in pay is caused both by discrimination and by factors such as differences in skills and the choice to pursue higher-paying jobs. The latter is a social norm rather than a result of direct discrimination, but it can still lead to large gaps.

Closing the remaining gaps will be more challenging than closing earlier ones. It may be harder to distinguish preferences/comparative advantages from gender bias and cultural barriers; it may take longer to change people’s minds; and it is likely that policies will have to tackle both the root causes and the symptoms (e.g., legal reforms to remove barriers and educational programs and information campaigns).

The economic costs of persistent gender inequality are high. They are borne by individuals and families, society as a whole and the global economy. The most significant cost is the loss of human potential, particularly that of women. Gender equality would reduce these losses and increase overall economic growth, financial stability and income inequality.

Moreover, it is widely recognized that gender inequality undermines development, which itself has a direct impact on health and well-being. The most serious health problems facing the world today, such as maternal mortality, unintended pregnancy, child malnutrition and infectious diseases, are closely linked to gender inequality – and can be overcome only by addressing the underlying social norms that perpetuate them.

It’s time to make a commitment to end these inequalities. This includes tackling everyday biases that contribute to them – from making sure all household chores are equally divided to fighting gender stereotypes. It also means ensuring that every person, including women and girls, is given equal opportunity to learn, earn and lead – no matter their sex or sexual identity.

It’s crucial to understand that a woman-friendly economic policy can be an effective poverty reduction strategy. We can start by reducing the obstacles in people’s path and helping them build skills to become self-sufficient. We can then help them access the capital they need to start or grow a business. We can help them build savings and secure credit, and provide safe and affordable childcare and family-friendly working conditions. All these measures will ultimately help to create a world in which women and men have equal opportunities for success, prosperity and happiness.